What should I do if I like young men at the age of 45? Most of the troubles in life have to do with the lower body?

Asked: What should I do if I like young men?

Asked by: Hospital administrator, female, 45 years old

I am a married woman of 45 years old and have a full-time job.

Recently, I realized that I like young men to the point where they are unrequited.

My daughters study in college and high school respectively, and the same is true for every time they see their male friends. My job is a hospital's desk administrator. Whenever I see patients with a little bit of sex, I will really want to chat with them. Although I should not be scolded by the patient at the moment, if this continues, I feel like I have always wanted to talk to the patient without finishing it.

If you are a artist, I like Mukai Ri. As long as there are programs that appear, I will definitely record them and watch them repeatedly. There is a designer who is responsible for me in the beauty salon. Because I really want to see him, I go to the beauty salon more and more frequently.

Whenever I take a photo, I feel disappointed when I see myself who is completely unworthy of being beautiful. However, my delusion in my heart to drink tea and chat with young men has increased.

I used to have no interest in men, and now I have lived as a sexless couple for a long time with my husband. But the relationship between husband and wife is very good.

If this continues, I am afraid I will really invite young men to have tea and chat together. Even though I look cool and cool, I always think about how to talk to young men.

As we grow older, should this mood disappear or become stronger?

What should I do? Please give me some suggestions!

Reply: Play as an interesting Obasan. Just don't ask for a reply

My friend is 77 years old and she is a crazy fan. Of course, buying CDs and DVDs is not the same, and even the concert will definitely attend the star chasing party.

Once you feel that you are older, as long as you see young men and women, you will naturally feel that the vitality they emit is very dazzling and charming. Just like Ogisan, who likes to meet with young girls, I can certainly understand Obasan's mood when I see young men and I can't help but want to chat. Just to me, as long as a student appears in front of me, I will also want to reach out to touch the shiny and flexible skin. I have to be very restrained to be able to force myself not to stretch out my hands.

Do you think you want to invite young men? This is not a problem at all. Do you want to know if this mood will fade away with the years? No, it will become stronger and stronger! Young people will answer as long as they think your offer is good for them. Your situation is different from Ojisan's sexual agitation. If the other party doesn't want to, just don't follow you.

You can let the other party see the world he has never experienced before, or you can ask the other party to taste the food he has never eaten. For young men, it is also a pleasant thing for some people to appreciate their lucky eating habits. So you might as well pay for your own pocket! It is no different from Ojisan's fun when wearing it, and it is okay to allow yourself to do this.

However, you must not make mistakes, and think that the other party really treats himself as an outward sensation. This mistake is no different from Ojisan's mistakes. The other party doesn’t care whether your appearance is good. If you are confident, you can play the role of interesting Obasan. Just treat yourself as a friend of different ages, so open your invitation more!

In this process, the other party may also invite you to watch the football competition you are fascinated by, or teach you how to operate your computer. No matter which side, you can experience the culture you have never been exposed to, and you will feel fun. In reality, you who only have a daughter in your life can also use this opportunity to experience the feeling of having a son.

said that when you come back, although you didn't ask me for help, the only thing that makes me feel worried from your story is "living a sexless couple with your husband." Regardless, I hope your interest in young men is not because you want to compensate for your relationship with your husband.

You, who used to be uninterested in men, are now a middle-aged woman who has no desire to be immunity. If you are obsessed with young men, you will definitely pay high prices. Pay more attention to this.

If you want to maintain friendships with a big age gap, the secret is that "you must not ask the other party to report on your efforts." This must be kept in mind. If you can make up your mind to be a kind and understanding Obasan and be willing to contribute money, work and time, you will definitely expand your rich circle of friends.