After the parents divorced, the boy confessed heartbrokenly: Dad and mother have become other people s mothers! I promised to love myself the same way, but I only love my younger sister

When you divorce, you think you, your exes will love your children the same way, and you also guarantee them the same way. But why do you have a new partner and change after remarriage? Even if you have a child again, do you care whether the child is neglected and wronged? Please be an adult with consciousness and courage, put the happiness of children first.

In Taiwan, divorce between husband and wife is a common phenomenon, and for children, the separation of parents is a major life change. The child has no right to decide or speak, so he can only accept such facts silently. Couples cannot continue to live together, but with children, couples must make proper arrangements for how to nourish children together. Especially, when you have plans to remarry.

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When many people divorced, they swore their children and patted their chests to guarantee: "Dad and mother will still love you the same way." But in fact, when there is a new target, the attitude changes greatly.

Is this caused by the influence of new objects? Will parents who want to ask divorced parents to take their children if they have a new partner and want to have a date? If you are going to get married, would you seriously think about whether this person will love your children too? And if you have another child, can you guarantee that your new father and mother will be in harmony with you and your ex's children? Are you sure what you see is the same as what your child actually feels?

You must have this kind of determination to remarry

When you are enjoying a new relationship, do you want to have the mood of your children? This is not to divorce the parents and their parents cannot talk about relationships or welcome the next marriage, but to call out: "You must have the ability to judge whether the new person can love your child; you must also have strong understanding. Compared to love, you are more important to love your child." Because, if you know children, you have absolute obligations and have good obligations.

You must let your child know, "I love you to do everything."

When you have this kind of understanding, you may not let divorce affect your child's physical and mental health, and you can find a new partner who is willing to respect you. When the other party sees your determination, those who don’t love your children will know that they will be difficult to retreat, and those who love you will love your children together. Otherwise, when there is a child again, the biasedness will definitely become more and more intense.

The child wrote the grievance in the composition

A Chinese elementary school student wrote an essay "Mom becomes someone else's mother". The text was full of helplessness because he knew that he had no choice but to live in adults' choices. It really makes people feel sore after watching it.

Mom became someone else's mother

Dad divorced, and I followed my dad. My father said he would not find anyone again, for fear that I would be wronged. When the mother left, she hugged the man and said I was sorry. She would definitely pick me up when she was able.

Later, my father fell in love with me and he took me to see my aunt. My aunt was very good to me and promised that she would not let me be wronged and would always be kind to me. Soon they got married, and dad and aunt gave birth to a younger brother. My father asked me to give the toys to my younger brother, and he bought them for me again, but he didn't buy them. My younger brother said that his mother took him to eat a maize and told him not to tell me. My younger brother cried in the aunt's face, and my father asked me to apologize, but my younger brother broke my toy and my younger brother cried even more. Dad yelled at me and let me apologize quickly. I know dad is someone else's father.

It's been three years since my mother finally came back to see me. I wanted to leave with her, but my mother disagreed. The mother also married someone else and gave birth to a sister, and the mother also became someone else's mother.

The child who has no choice, the parent who is indifferent to the child's mood, forgets his determination and responsibility to have a child at the beginning. For your own happiness, sacrifice the happiness of your children. This article is definitely not saying that divorced people cannot remarry, but that when you have children, your choices cannot be pure. You must be very brave to defend the happiness of your children.

You must be sure that if you remarry and have another child, you will not be wronged. How many people ignore their children because of their new object after they divorce, and make their children wronged, and even abuse and abuse! It's actually touching. Never be such an adult who is not irresponsible.